Dealing with communication & silence – Eastern Fostering Services
Lucy Stevens - 8th November 2017
There are all sorts of behaviours that foster carers have to deal as they care for children. These range from swearing to bedwetting, smearing to sexualised behaviour, destroying everything in sight to screaming and shouting the house down. A carer dealing with behaviours like these could easily be forgiven for wanting a little peace and quiet. But silence from a child can be equally draining. Prolonged silence from a child is a bit like hitting the metaphorical wall that runners refer to. It is a barrier that hurts, overwhelms and which at times feels insurmountable. Silence is golden Generally, I believe silence is a good thing, a powerful thing – a way of sticking it to this relentlessly unsilent
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Blog Corner
Lucy Stevens - 8th November 2017
The interview The day, when it arrives is cold and wet, unremarkable in many ways for January. But this day is remarkable because it’s the day that’s been looming over us for six months. It’s the day of our foster son’s substantive interview at the Home Office. The basis for asylum being granted or denied. We’ve taken great pains to explain what is going to happen on the day. We have explained that this is the interview during which the Home Office will study his statement and ask him lots of painful questions about his home country, his reasons for leaving and the journey that brought him to us and his claim for asylum. Yet in the run up to the
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Come and have a chat about fostering! – Eastern Fostering Services
Lucy Stevens - 8th November 2017
Our coffee mornings are a great opportunity to meet the team and chat to our carers. We believe that when it comes to fostering there is no question that you shouldn't feel able to ask and we encourage all visitors to our events to do just that. We've got a couple of events lined up over the next few weeks: Information Event "Let's set the record straight" busting the myths around fostering - 14th November - 11.30 until 2.30 at the Huntingdon Marriot, Cambridgeshire. Coffee morning - a chance to meet the team and our carers over a cup of coffee and slice of cake. 10.30 - 12.30 24th November at our offices in East Bergholt, Suffolk. So why not
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